It all started with a simple question in your own family, when you can expect grandchildren from a son of twenty-five years old.
The answer that lay on the surface turned out to be very unattractive – either never, or born from casual relationships.
The point is that the son is seriously engaged in his career, and has a real 5 + 1 schedule at best, with shifts of at least 12 hours, and more often 14 hours. And this is for a long time in the foreseeable future.
There is nothing to reproach him with, but on his day off he can only sleep it off, and there is no question of any kind of leisure.
Objectively, the circle of communication is limited to the work team, or casual acquaintances in a bar during extremely rare outings there.
And I really want grandchildren!
After talking with the source of the grandchildren's appearance, and a joint analysis of the current situation, several thoughts were highlighted:
• Dating through existing online dating sites does not provide objective information about a partner, requires significant expenditure of personal time and is based only on personal perception of the provided photo.
• Dating in bars for starting a family is not considered.
• The option to find a spouse in a team is very unlikely.
Thoughts did not add optimism!
To resolve the issue, the head of the family, that is, I, courageously offered the option to search for suitable options, followed by their provision to the applicant for approval or denial.
After receiving the approval of all interested parties, I took up the issue.
The scheme didn't seem complicated. Just contact a reputable marriage agency, outline the main desirable qualities of a future mother of grandchildren, and wait for options.
Everything turned out to be absolutely not easy.
No one is going to deal with the serious issue of studying applicants, at its core the scheme uses a huge database of applicants who have written about themselves what distinguishes them from competitors. Only visualization is primary, although even it does not always correspond to reality.
Nothing serious in this area, even with my very strong desire, could not be found.
Inevitably, the thought came: something needs to be done about it, once you've taken it on.
Any project starts with the development of a concept.
The concept.
To create a club of people united by a clearly formulated desire to create a family, give birth and raise children, in the most traditional understanding of all human values.
This is true at any age. If the children have already grown up, it is important to spend the rest of your life with your loved one, and invite children to visit.
Why the club?
It is necessary to set a certain threshold in the form of membership in the club, for the confidence of all participants in the adequacy, clear orientation, maximum frankness of the participants, while guaranteeing well-developed security systems for all very personal data of applicants from any surprises.
The selection of a partner is carried out only within the members of this club, according to the main desired parameters of the partner indicated by the applicants, and this is the main thing, and only at the next stage a visual acquaintance with the applicant is made, which of course is also very important. And only after the personal approval of the information provided by us by both parties, the club organizes the first meeting of the resulting potential couple.
An important goal of the club is to bring people back to live communication, at least to solve the most important issue in life, creating a family.
We do not solve issues online. No electronic databases.
This scheme should not provide dozens of candidates for consideration every day. In our case, it is not the quantity that matters, but the quality of the options offered. Time is the main resource today, and it needs to be used rationally.
A person knows almost everything about his life, and yet, when filling out a questionnaire, a highly qualified psychologist provided by us will help the applicant. Who knows, maybe previously hidden talents will be revealed in himself. By the way, he will make up your psychological profile.
Important: going through all the stages of joining the club, you clearly understand that all these stages are passed by all candidates, without exception, and you understand the level of information provided to you.
We somehow try not to know anything about health until problems arise.
In our case, all participants are required to undergo a comprehensive medical examination in a high-tech clinic with leading specialists. It is not superfluous to make sure of your health, with the opportunity to fix something in the same clinic (this is at the request of the applicant) and at his expense. We can't do everything either.
That's how, based on all of the above, our HONEST CHOICE Club was born. It has VIP status because the participants have exceptional qualities, and has already become international because serious interest has been shown in Russia, the UAE, Austria and Germany.